So let’s say you’ve done it – what every aspiring sugar baby sets out to do. You’ve not only met an amazing sugar daddy, but you’ve successfully become the apple of his eye and gotten yourself into an amazing arrangement that seems to be heaven on earth for both of you. However, now that you’ve got him, you’ve got to keep him.
Thankfully, while there’s definitely a fine art to keeping a sugar daddy interested over the long term, it’s an art that can be learned and mastered. The following tips can help you make absolutely sure your daddy stays completely under your spell for as long as you want him to be.
- Prioritize his happiness.
At the end of the day, people’s biggest takeaway when it comes to another person is how that person makes them feel. Keeping someone happy is the key to keeping them interested in you on a long-term basis, and this is especially the case if you’re a sugar baby. Be there for your daddy when he needs you. Take advantage of every opportunity to give his self-esteem a boost. Do you best to maintain a sunny, calming mood when you’re together as well. A good sugar baby is a total fantasy come true, and she never loses sight of that.
- Be a vision at all times.
A sugar baby who’s got her daddy completely captivated naturally has him interested in more than just her looks. However, that hardly means looks aren’t important, because they very much are, especially in a sugar relationship. Be sure to maintain your sense of style and fashion. Take care of your hair and skin. Work out. Wear makeup. Smell divine. It’s all part of maintaining that irresistible sugar baby mystique. Plus, it’s just plain fun to spend plenty of time on self-care.
- Be an amazing conversationalist.
A good sugar baby who’s serious about keeping her sugar daddy happy knows that it really does take more than a pretty face and a perfect body to truly captivate a powerful, important man. You’ve got to be able to command his attention mentally, intellectually, and emotionally as well. Great sugar babies are smart, funny, and socially astute. They know how to hold up their end of an intelligent conversation. They’re educated, well-read, and perpetually interested in learning new things. Be that way now, and make sure to stay that way into the future.
- Be available when he needs you.
If your sugar daddy is like most, saying he’s a busy guy is really quite the understatement. He also probably sees time spent with his beautiful sugar baby as a welcome haven away from the stress and pressure he deals with in every other aspect of his life. That’s exactly why it’s so important to be available to him. Take advantage of any opportunity you’re presented with to spend time with your daddy. Don’t be too busy to see him. Treat him like the top priority he should be, and always put your best face forward whenever you’re together.
- Always respect his privacy.
Although everyone’s different when it comes to how open they want to be about their personal relationships, it’s likely that your sugar daddy places a high value on discretion. Keep this in mind and respect it in your dealings with both him and other people. Let your daddy take the lead in personal conversations about his life outside of your relationship, as opposed to asking him a multitude of questions. Definitely be discreet in what you share with other people or on social media about your time together. When in doubt, always err on the side of caution.
- Know your daddy inside and out.
A great sugar baby is an ace when it comes to instinctually knowing her daddy almost as well as he knows himself (if not better). Get to know his moods, as well as the little signals that clue you in to how he’s feeling and what he’s thinking. Learn all the little things about him that he likes so you always know how to give his mood a boost.
At the end of the day, keeping a sugar daddy interested really is all about how you make him feel. The more he associates you with great moods and good times, the more he’ll come to see you as an indispensable part of his life.