Finding the Perfect Woman

You have finally taken a big leap of faith in online dating when you created your profile at You’re ready as ever to finally find that person you wanted to be and we’re pretty sure you’re excited to finally browse, chat and meet your perfect match. You have a great profile, you look good and you know what you want in the relationship but the next part of our step by step guide is quite the hardest part. How do you finally find that perfect match? We all know we have our own types. Some loves blondes while other go for brunettes. But we know that you are on the lookout for something skin deep.

Finding  women to take care of is a careful screening process. After all, a man does not want to take the wrong kind of woman under his wing. She could do all kinds of harm to his reputation and to his business even after the man has spent a fortune on her. To find out if a woman is compatible to be his sugar baby, here are some tips for the generous lover.

  1. She should be open-minded

Not all women are open to this kind of relationship. A lot of women aim to be married especially with a rich man. A man searching for the ideal sugar baby should be direct and explain the parameters of the relationship. If the woman expresses her discomfort, she is not fit for the role. In the long run, the man may only end up hurting her. It should never be the intention of the man to mislead or hurt the woman. Also, a hurt woman may cause harm to herself and to her benefactor. The man is looking for a woman who would make his life blissful and happy. He is not looking for a stressful woman. 

  1. She should be intelligent but not calculating

Of course, she should be intelligent. Spending time with a stupid woman is annoying. What would they talk about when they’re together? It would also be embarrassing to parade a stupid woman out in public. The man has made his wealth because he is intelligent. His companion should be able to hold up a conversation. However, the man should also be wary of women who are too calculating. He may end up getting exploited. The tell-tale sign of women of this type is they devise ways for a man to do as she pleases sometimes through sexual favors or verbal threats. 

  1. She should be sweet and caring

Since the man is being very generous to the woman, she should at least show him some measure of affection. It feels good to pamper a woman who reciprocates how well she is treated. The woman is expected to listen and care about what the man has to say. It is also ideal that she gives him her time and showers him with loving words, hugs, and kisses. When a man feels good, he can be very generous to his woman indeed. 

  1. She should be discreet

The man does not want other people knowing about his business. Embarrassing information should not be made public especially if he is an important man who has a reputation to keep. The woman should know how to keep his secrets. The woman’s discretion is also a measure of her character. It shows that she respects and cares for her man enough not to put him in a compromising position. She should be made to understand at the start that keeping his secrets is essential to keeping the relationship. 

  1. She should at least have goals

The type of woman a man is looking to take care of should at least have goals. She should at least be making a reasonable effort to reach said goals. A man would feel less proud of her if her only job is to be his girlfriend. He might get tired of her fast because she is not doing anything interesting with her life. A woman with her hand out is not a sexy woman. She should be responsible for her career in some measure. The man is there to pamper her, but she should be able to take care of herself even without him. 

  1. She should be into maintaining her beauty and fitness

Men are visual creatures. They pick out women initially for their looks. It is also human nature for men to want to spend time with women they are attracted to. If a woman does not maintain her looks, the man may lose attraction for her. The very root of their arrangement in this kind of relationship is his attraction. He may feel less inclined to take care of her if he is no longer attracted, so should she make an effort to be beautiful and desirable for him. Otherwise, he may move on to spending on other women who do make the effort. 

  1. She should be flexible to his time

The woman should be adjusting to the man in this relationship. He showers her with so much generosity it is only right for him to see her when he needs and wants her. A woman who keeps too tight a schedule may not be ideal. He might end up adjusting to her time. This defeats the entire purpose of arranging this kind of relationship. The man should feel like a priority at all times. He shouldn’t have to squeeze into her calendar. 

  1. She should not be too promiscuous

A promiscuous woman may carry diseases. There are too many stories of men who catch venereal diseases from the wrong choice of woman. She might also be embarrassing to take out. She may have already dated all his friends such that the entire town are familiar with her bedroom etiquette. He may end up regretting that he met her in the first place. A man must make sure that the woman he is seeing is in some level prudent and respectable.

The bottom line is the woman that the man should have as his beneficiary is someone who makes him feel good about himself. She should add value to his person. She should not be the type of person who would cause him stress or harm. To find this woman, a man should be prudent. He should search for qualities. Once a man finds this type of woman, he should take good care of her. Now, that we helped you find a perfect woman for you. Let’s go to Step 4!

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