Making It Last

Just like any romance-based relationship, there is a great deal of work and effort involved in making sure that a sugar dating relationship lasts. No relationship worth holding on to will remain in a harmonious and copacetic state without a great deal of cooperation from both partners, and this goes for sugar dating as well. As a sugar daddy and a sugar baby, you both have roles and responsibilities to fulfill within the relationship. Knowing what these are and committing to fulfill them are essential to ensuring the success of your partnership.

Agreeing to the terms of the relationship

Before anything else, it is important to make sure whether or not you are both willing to adhere to the terms of the relationship. Now is the time to clearly define what being a sugar daddy and being a sugar baby actually means.

Of course, the most basic arrangement puts you in the position of being the main financial provider, but most sugar dating relationship involve a lot more than that. Your sugar baby may simply serve as a social companion to you or she may be more of a girlfriend. You may agree to see each other exclusively or you may agree to have her see other people on her own time.

Regardless of the actual terms of your relationship, the most important thing is that you agree to them and that you both commit to holding up your end. This will give you a more clearly defined framework that will enable you both to determine whether or not the relationship is working.

How far are you both willing to take things?

Sugar daddies and sugar babies may have widely different ideas with regard to the nature and depth of the relationship. Are you simply interested in a sort of casual relationship wherein you have a “girlfriend” at your beck and call? Or are you more interested in a long-term partnership wherein you and your sugar baby could eventually plan for a life together?

The thing to keep in mind is that it is possible for either scenario to occur within the bounds of a typical sugar dating relationship. This can cause some confusion and conflict when the plans and intentions of both partners don’t mesh. Just like anything else that could potentially affect the nature of your relationship together, these aspects should be discussed in specific terms as early on as possible.

Resist the temptation to “just see how it goes” or to hold off on making a decision later on. Doing so tends to leave potential problem issues unresolved and could give you the illusion that things are okay when they are not. Discuss early on whether you are after a casual relationship or a more long-term one, and you will at least have the benefit of being on the same page as you progress through the relationship.

What you can do

Earlier in this article, we mentioned that sugar daddies and sugar babies each have their responsibilities within the relationship. As a sugar daddy, the best way to ensure that the relationship lasts is to uphold your end of the arrangement, which is to provide for the financial needs of your sugar baby.

Now, this will obviously depend on what you have agreed on initially. If you agreed to purchase an apartment or a condo for your sugar baby or to pay her rent, you will have to continue doing so in order to hold up your end of the deal.

But there is more to it than that. While some sugar babies would be content to simply be paid for their services, many also expect to be in a warm and affectionate relationship wherein they are treated with respect. You should therefore make an effort to treat your partner respectfully, even if there is no romantic aspect to your relationship.

What you can expect

For your part, you should also expect to be treated with respect as a partner in a mutually beneficial relationship. Even though your sugar dating relationship is more of a business relationship than anything else, there is no reason why you should have to be treated as a burden or an inconvenience, or worse, as a meal ticket.

It is important to communicate your needs to your sugar baby early on, even before conflict arises. Let her know that you are expecting her to treat you as an equal partner in a mutually beneficial relationship and that you fully intend to reciprocate that respect. If you two can agree to work toward an arrangement wherein both partners are considered equal, you will have a much better chance of making your partnership last.

Should you stay or should you go?

Despite your best efforts to keep the relationship harmonious, you may come to a point where it simply doesn’t make sense to hold on. Personality clashes, incompatibility, unacceptable character traits, and other factors can place way too much burden on a relationship–­far more than anyone could reasonably be expected to put up with. If you find yourself in such a position, it might be best to simply cut your losses and walk away. Try to save the relationship if at all possible, but also have enough sense to know when it has become more trouble than it is worth.

As you can see, a sugar dating relationship will require just as much work and effort as any other relationship, including a romance-based one. Even before you get started on such an endeavor, it is essential to have a clear understanding of what it entails, what your responsibilities are, and whether or not you are willing to live up to them. Leaving things to chance is an almost surefire recipe for disaster, so make sure you have all your bases covered. If you do decide that being a sugar daddy is for you, you will also have to make a commitment to do everything in your power to ensure that you and your sugar baby will be able to go the distance.

You may also be interested in reading the Secret Benefits review